Archive for June, 2012

“Angry Queers” Break Stained-Glass Window

Monday, June 25th, 2012

Posted: 06/13/2012 5:04 pm

There is an Internet story gone viral about “Angry Queers” breaking historic stained-glass windows in the old Mars Hill Church in Portland, Oregon. In all the stories I can find no verifiable evidence that “queers” did it. Eye witnesses claim that black-hooded youth were throwing rocks at the windows. Fox News (an objective, truth gathering media outlet to be sure) allegedly received a phone call and a note signed by a group calling itself “Angry Queers” taking credit for the attack.

Whatever happened that dark night, April 24, 2012, it is possible that a handful of “queers” broke the stained-glass windows to protest the anti-gay rhetoric of Mark Driscoll, the church’s founder. I don’t condone vandalism, but who could blame them for their anger? We’ve been victimized by the Christian right for more than half a century. Fortunately, however, during all that time there are almost zero acts of violence reported by queer people against our oppressors.

As the co-founder of Soulforce I am committed to relentless nonviolent resistance; however, I can’t tell you how many times I’ve wanted to commit violent acts myself against the Fred Phelps of this world who thank God for dead American soldiers and sing praises to those who murdered Matthew Shepard. Why don’t I give in to violence during those moments when my patience runs thin and my anger surges? Am I a coward? Do LGBT people have this shiny nonviolence record because we’re afraid to fight back? Is it time for nonviolent protests to end and time for violence to begin?

At least the “Angry Queers” did something. But should we follow their example, put on hoods, pick up rocks, and break stained-glass windows? When that doesn’t work should we assassinate a really offensive leader of the Christian right? Should we strap on bombs and blow up pastors and churches that make our lives miserable? To answer the question, just ask yourself: Did those “Angry Queers” do us any good? Did their act of violence advance our cause, win hearts and minds, or lead us one step closer to full acceptance and equality? No.

The nation’s media, especially the conservative Christian press, repeat the story of “angry queers” attacking churches. Leaders of the Christian right point at the broken glass and say “I told you so.” True or false what happened on Mars Hill gives credibility to their lie that we are a threat to the nation and to the church, the very lie that made “Angry Queers” angry. Whoever broke those windows may have felt good when they rushed home, took off their hoods and celebrated with a six pack, but at this very moment just when the scales of justice are beginning to tip in our direction, they dumped rocks and broken glass into the scale of injustice and leave the rest of us to clean up the mess.

Here’s the good news: Relentless nonviolent resistance began when Logan Lynn from Portland’s Q Center and Nathan Meckley, our MCC pastor in Portland, rushed to Mars Hill to help sweep up the shattered glass. Now almost every month Logan, Nathan and six others are meeting with Mars Hill pastor Tim Smith and several of his people to discuss their differences. Something wonderful might come of that.

However amicable conversations and loving acts of solidarity may not be enough to stop the lies. When the meetings end, what decision will our allies in Portland have to make if Mars Hill’s founder, Mark Driscoll, continues his antigay rhetoric on his radio and TV broadcasts and on the 100,000 podcasts downloaded weekly by his people in Seattle, Portland and across the U.S. Logan, Nathan and our Oregonian friends and allies will have to decide. Do we throw up our hands and walk away or do we act?

If we choose to act, the rules of relentless nonviolent resistance provide guidelines for our action. Collect samples of Pastor Driscoll’s rhetoric. Build an airtight case against it. Gather testimonials that illustrate the tragic consequences of his false teachings in the families of his 7,500 member church. Recruit and train volunteers in nonviolence. Alert the media. Surround the church week after week with silent vigils, nonviolent protests and colorful rallies until our story also goes viral. We are on the defensive now. Then Pastor Driscoll will face the kind of shame we are facing. And if after all our efforts he still does not see the truth and still does not confess his sins against us, always remember we don’t stand for truth and justice for his sake but for our own.

I can’t resist the irony that “Angry Queer” violence happened on Mars Hill, in Portland, a fundamentalist Christian church, but in ancient times the rock near the Acropolis in Athens named after the Roman god of war. More than 2,000 years ago, when the apostle Paul spotted a shrine on Mars Hill “to the unknown god” he staged his own nonviolent protest against the violent gods of Greece and Rome. With his friends watching in shock and awe, Paul climbed up the rock, shouted the crowd into silence and began to describe the God he had discovered in the life and teachings of Jesus, a God of peace not war, a God of love not hate.

Here’s my fantasy. Let Mars Hill in Portland become a symbol, not of “Angry Gays” breaking stained-glass windows but of nonviolent gays who are also angry but refuse to be violent in the face of Pastor Driscoll’s toxic rhetoric. Let’s make Mars Hill a symbol of a people committed to nonviolence who will go on resisting the lies relentlessly until truth prevails and the nation grants us all the rights and protections we deserve.

Not So “Bitter” Old Activist Looks Back

Monday, June 18th, 2012

After my last Huffington Post Blog, “Angry Queers” Break Stained Glass Windows, I received this email: “Always enjoy reading your words and hearing your thoughts but sometimes I think you’re trying so hard to make your point that you come across bitter.”

Me, the happy homo, bitter? Corny…preachy…bombastic…boring, maybe, but “bitter?”
Today is my wedding anniversary. How could I be bitter? In fact I woke up this morning celebrating what happened on June 18, 2008 at All Saints Episcopal Church in Pasadena. Who would have believed it possible that Gary and I would celebrate thirty years together or that our relationship would be honored by church and state alike?
Yesterday was Father’s Day. How could I be bitter? Mike texted me “Love you, Dad,” from a location in Hawaii; Erinn and her husband Dr. Terry Rich took us out to lunch; our granddaughter, Katie, gave us photos she had framed and grandson Sean gave us “Grampa #1″ baseball hats and T-shirts. This morning I walked the beach just after sunrise and tonight Gary and I will celebrate 3 decades together with lemon drop martinis, Thai fried rice and a movie. How could I be bitter when life couldn’t be better?
On second thought, maybe she’s right. I am bitter. Bitter, the dictionary says, is “resentment felt as a result of a real or imagined wrong done.” I checked my Thesaurus to see if any of the adjectives under “bitter” describe my feelings after twenty five years working to help end religion based oppression and I discovered that the writer of that email was right. I am “bitter:” resentful, angry, infuriated, irate, enraged, incensed, outraged and anxious.
Resentful that Christian leaders, Protestant, Catholic, and Mormon alike, still warn the public that we are a threat to family and to nation; Angry that holy terrorists on the Christian right are still determined to reverse the rights we have gained, amend the U.S. Constitution, and drive us back into our closets; Infuriated that children who are different are still being bullied and called “fag;” Irate that lesbians and gays are still being rejected by their parents, priests and pastors; Enraged that they are still being crippled in body and in spirit by gay bashers who really believe they are doing God’s business; Incensed that gay teenagers are 4-7 times more likely to attempt suicide than their peers; Outraged that year after year our transgender sisters and brothers are the number one victims of hate crimes across the U.S.; Anxious about what could happen to the U.S. (and to us) if the Tea-party types take the White House and the Congress on election day, November, 2012.
I admit it. I’m bitter. However, not just bitter. Once again my Thesaurus filled in the more positive (hopefully) adjectives: grateful, ecstatic, thrilled, elated, hopeful, encouraged, delighted and thankful. Grateful that I’m married to a man who in spite of my failures and broken promises has never given up on me; Ecstatic that we begin our retirement living in a little cottage just blocks from the beach; Thrilled that I have a loving extended family including my former wife and literally hundreds of loyal friends; Elated that my heroes are calling Holy Terror “A consciousness raising, must read book,” (Spong) and “a page-turning whodunit that is both chilling and enormously instructive,” (Robinson); Hopeful that you will forgive me for sneaking in a Holy Terror commercial; Delighted that so many religious leaders, local congregations and even whole denominations are becoming open and affirming; Encouraged by the gains we have made. Optimistic that we will go on making them.
I admit it. There are times when I am bitter and other times when I am almost overcome by joy. I sometimes wonder which emotion will triumph in the end. Tomorrow will I wake up singing something cheery from a Broadway musical or find myself still waving my fist at the holy terrorists on the Christian right? I have no idea.
But in the meantime, it’s hard to stay bitter very long knowing that God created me gay and loves me exactly as I was created. When a holy terrorist waves his Bible and calls me sick and sinful I can look him in the eye and say with certainty: I am gay. I am proud. And God loves me without reservation. Try staying bitter after saying that?

Playing the ‘Wrath of God’ Card

Monday, June 11th, 2012

 

President Obama Says ‘No’ to Holy Terrorism

Mel in the Huffington Post
Posted: 05/25/2012 3:55 am

When President Obama announced his support for same-sex marriage, he gave our nation a far greater gift than marriage equality for millions of gay and lesbian couples. He spent a lot of time “evolving” on the issue, but in the end the President showed us that he would not give way to terrorists, even those “holy terrorists” on the Christian right who threatened God’s wrath upon this nation if gays and lesbians were given the rights and protections of marriage.

Marriage Equality is not about Marriage but about Equality

Fundamentalists, whether Christian, Muslim, or Jew, use violence or the threat of violence to intimidate and coerce, especially for political purposes. Christian terrorists may not strap on bombs or toss hand grenades or spray a sidewalk café with automatic weapons. Instead, they promise that their God will do the dirty work for them.

We should not be surprised that holy terrorists use the threat of God’s wrath to accomplish their political goals when they use the threat of God’s wrath to intimidate or coerce their own children. In spite of all the psychological, scientific, historic, and even biblical evidence to the contrary, Christian pastors, priests, and parents still warn their lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender children that God doesn’t love them as they are and that if they accept their sexual orientation as good, right, and blessed, God will abandon them to hell.

Playing the “wrath of God” card is not new to American politics. Recent surveys make it clear that the Tea Party movement is simply the old Christian right in disguise. More than half the Tea Party members surveyed believe that the Bible is the literal word of God, that America is a Christian nation, and that public officials should pay more attention to (the Christian) religion. Sixty-three percent believe that abortion should not be legal. Eighty-two percent oppose same-sex marriage. I do not hate my sisters and brothers on the Christian right, but I do fear their growing political power.

Republican candidates for president tripped all over themselves trying to win the hearts and minds of the new/old Christian right. Governor Romney continues to pander and placate. It is no longer just “the economy, stupid.” In this election year, democracy is still threatened by theocracy. The Constitution is still threatened by biblical law. And holy terrorists are still using the threat of God’s wrath to superimpose their beliefs on the rest of us. Gay Americans should celebrate all the advances being made toward full equality, but we must not forget that the civil and religious rights we have gained are easily reversed if the holy terrorists have their way.

According to the Baltimore Sun, at a hearing on Maryland’s proposed constitutional amendment to prohibit gay marriage, Jamie Raskin, professor of law at American University, was requested to testify. At the end of his testimony, Republican senator Nancy Jacobs said, “As I read Biblical principles, marriage was intended, ordained, and started by God. That is my belief.” Raskin replied, “People place their hand on the Bible and swear to uphold the Constitution; they don’t put their hand on the Constitution and swear to uphold the Bible,” eliciting applause from some people in the room.

Unfortunately, too many Americans are not applauding. The Tea Party mentality supports Senator Jacobs when she suggests that the “laws of God” are the ultimate authority over laws and protections based on the U.S. Constitution. The campaign to amend the North Carolina State Constitution was led almost entirely by holy terrorists misusing the Bible to turn ancient superstition and modern ignorance into law.

But I celebrate the fact that for whatever personal and political reasons, our president’s support for marriage equality reaffirms his belief that we are not a Christian nation, that in this democracy the Constitution trumps biblical law, and that over the long haul our president will not be held hostage by holy terrorists warning the nation of “God’s wrath.”

Thank you, Gene Robinson, for your words about Holy Terror

“Mel White’s Religion Gone Bad reads like a page-turning whodunit. His careful recounting of the rise of fundamentalism in America is both chilling and enormously instructive. While religious progressives have been sitting around hoping that everyone would play fair with other faithful people, the fundamentalists have been planning and implementing a strategy for taking over the Christian church and the government. Religion Gone Bad (now Holy Terror) is a wake-up call to religious progressives to take back the Bible and stop being fearful of telling the story of our own salvation at the hands of an all-loving, all-merciful and inclusive God.”

The Rt. Rev. V. Gene Robinson, Episcopal Bishop of New Hampshire

 

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/rev-mel-white/president-obama-says-no-t_b_1544729.html

For LGBT People Best and Worst of Times

Monday, June 11th, 2012

Good News! Bad News!
Huffington Post
Posted: 06/01/2012 7:50 pm

On June 1, 2012, one Los Angeles Times headline reads, “Southern Baptist pastor Fred Luter is set to become the first black president of a denomination with a segregationist history.” Just two inches away a second headline reads: “Key part of marriage act ruled invalid.” Juxtaposing these two headlines illustrates my position that these are the “best and worst of times” for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender Americans.

In New Orleans the (almost) new president of the 15-million-member Southern Baptist Church told a reporter, “It’s a new day for our church. Our doors are open to each and everybody.” In the same interview Rev. Luter reaffirmed his support for the Southern Baptist Church’s opposition to abortion and gay marriage with these words: “My mindset and my lifestyle is driven by what the Word of God says. If God says it’s wrong, then it’s wrong.” Millions of conservative Americans cheered.

In Boston, almost simultaneously, in a 3-0 decision, the First U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals struck down provisions of the 1996 Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) that deny federal benefits to same-sex couples. However, the judges made it clear that “only the Supreme Court can finally decide this unique case.” Millions of progressive Americans cheered.

Two teams on the field, each fighting to score another point, to make a few more yards, to move their cause closer to the goal. For conservative Americans under the influence of the Christian-right mentality, the goal is clear: Reverse the advances gays have made, amend the U.S. Constitution to stop gay marriage, and drive LGBT people back into their closets. The goal for progressive Americans is to win full equality for their LGBT neighbors and in the process end the war that holy terrorists on the Christian right are waging against us.

Luter says “all are welcome” and then promises proudly to defend his denomination’s position on homosexuality passed in 1996 by the Southern Baptist Convention, stating,  “Even desire to engage in a homosexual relationship is always sinful, impure, degrading, shameful, unnatural, indecent and perverted.” Worse, Lute proves that he is a biblical literalist who is certain that “if God says it’s wrong, then it’s wrong.”

The Boston court strikes down the provisions of DOMA that deny Gary his rights as my husband and heir and then warns us that the Supreme Court will make the final decision. It seems a warning, because past decisions by Chief Justice Roberts, and past verdicts of the Roberts Court, don’t give us a lot of hope that they will support marriage equality and end centuries of injustice and inequality.

So, this morning, on the front page of the Los Angeles Times, both teams score. Those of us sitting on our side of the stadium stand and cheer, while our adversaries sitting across from us in the very same stadium stand and cheer, as well. Looks like the score is tied, that either side could win or lose.

In the meantime, anti-gay bullies on playgrounds and in pulpits continue to wound the bodies and the spirits of our young sisters and brothers. Gay bashers continue to believe that those six biblical verses give them license to kill us, and our innocent young people believe that those same verses give them license to kill themselves.

There is plenty of evidence to prove that even when it seems like we’re tied on the scoreboard, we are in fact losing. Even when we win a ballot initiative or a court decision, the toxic rhetoric continues to poison the national discourse, with tragic consequences for us all. I cheer the court’s decision, but at the same time I worry that if we get too confident, if we really believe things are going our way, if we relax, thinking the war is over, we increase the probability that we will lose the game.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/rev-mel-white/good-news-bad-news_1_b_1563774.html

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